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		Comment on Brothers by Mike bannigan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mike bannigan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2020 22:54:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great recap of the first training session. I’m liking the gorilla mentality and looking forward to tomorrow Dale!
-MCB]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great recap of the first training session. I’m liking the gorilla mentality and looking forward to tomorrow Dale!<br />
-MCB</p>
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		Comment on Brothers by Dale Diaz		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dale Diaz]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2020 21:07:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Feel free to leave comments her, bros.]]></description>
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		Comment on Don&#8217;t Be a Scaredy Cat Summary Page by Dale Diaz		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2018 17:06:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://dalediaz.com/scaredy-cat-summary/#comment-203&quot;&gt;KK Redjoy&lt;/a&gt;.

Yes, The Re-Focusing Pattern &lt;em&gt;can be&lt;/em&gt; used to stop habits and things you want to stop doing too. (This is called cessation.) 

The best way to do it using The Re-Focusing Pattern is to give something for your unconscious mind to understand. For example, the unconscious mind doesn&#039;t really understand to NOT do something. If you say, &quot;I want to not smoke,&quot; the mind cannot picture a &quot;NOT doing something image,&quot; it can only see a mental visual of you smoking and that&#039;s not a good mental focus. 

So turn the things you want to stop doing into a &lt;em&gt;&quot;toward&quot;&lt;/em&gt; image. Example: &quot;I want to be a healthy non-smoker.&quot; Or, &quot;I want to be the type of person that does only healthy habits like exercise, eat well, and have pure clean breath.&quot; (Something like that. You get the picture.) Now, the mind knows what to focus on. 

Once you have identified your specific category/context as a &quot;toward&quot; statement in the first step, then you can ask yourself, &quot;I want to be a healthy lunged, deep breathing, non-smoker type... What scares me?&quot; After you identify your scarey visual,  move it aside and create the &quot;Beyond Image&quot; for that context, etc. 

In most cases, this process can help you to stop bad habits just as well as start new ones. In a way, they are connected anyway.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://dalediaz.com/scaredy-cat-summary/#comment-203">KK Redjoy</a>.</p>
<p>Yes, The Re-Focusing Pattern <em>can be</em> used to stop habits and things you want to stop doing too. (This is called cessation.) </p>
<p>The best way to do it using The Re-Focusing Pattern is to give something for your unconscious mind to understand. For example, the unconscious mind doesn&#8217;t really understand to NOT do something. If you say, &#8220;I want to not smoke,&#8221; the mind cannot picture a &#8220;NOT doing something image,&#8221; it can only see a mental visual of you smoking and that&#8217;s not a good mental focus. </p>
<p>So turn the things you want to stop doing into a <em>&#8220;toward&#8221;</em> image. Example: &#8220;I want to be a healthy non-smoker.&#8221; Or, &#8220;I want to be the type of person that does only healthy habits like exercise, eat well, and have pure clean breath.&#8221; (Something like that. You get the picture.) Now, the mind knows what to focus on. </p>
<p>Once you have identified your specific category/context as a &#8220;toward&#8221; statement in the first step, then you can ask yourself, &#8220;I want to be a healthy lunged, deep breathing, non-smoker type&#8230; What scares me?&#8221; After you identify your scarey visual,  move it aside and create the &#8220;Beyond Image&#8221; for that context, etc. </p>
<p>In most cases, this process can help you to stop bad habits just as well as start new ones. In a way, they are connected anyway.</p>
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		Comment on Don&#8217;t Be a Scaredy Cat Summary Page by KK Redjoy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[KK Redjoy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2018 13:52:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The first time I tried the refocusing pattern it worked well. I used it for being motivated to finish my book series that I&#039;m writing. I noticed an immediate improvement in my discipline to write daily. However, the second time I used this system it didn&#039;t seem to help at all. Can you use this to help stop smoking?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first time I tried the refocusing pattern it worked well. I used it for being motivated to finish my book series that I&#8217;m writing. I noticed an immediate improvement in my discipline to write daily. However, the second time I used this system it didn&#8217;t seem to help at all. Can you use this to help stop smoking?</p>
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